There is nothing harder for a parent than when your child is hurt or struggling or worried. It doesn’t matter how old they are, six or sixteen, or almost 26 and about to be a parent herself.
My Beautiful Daughter,
I wish I knew what to say to calm your worries. I wish I could show you one, five, twenty years from now, so you would see how amazing your life will always be. I wish I knew how to fill you with peace about what will be for your growing family.
But life can be pretty overwhelming. Especially right now. I can’t pretend to know how it feels to be carrying three babies at once. I can barely stand the worry that comes with being a mom to two amazing grown women.
Worry has always been part of my life. I am a worrier. Likely I passed some of that (okay maybe more than some of that) on to you and to your sister.
Now I wish I had the wisdom to tell you how to let go of that worry.
“Worry doesn’t take away tomorrow’s troubles. It takes away today’s peace.”
There is real truth in that. I have spent too much of my life worried. I have wasted too many days worried about would happen next.
Next has always turned out to be pretty great!
Try to remember what you were worried about a year ago. Did it happen? If it did, did you overcome it?
Beautiful girl, I struggle enough with my own worry to think I know the answer. But I want you to reflect on what you have already accomplished and overcome in your life. There is nothing you cannot do.
Preparation is helpful. Planning for what you can is helpful. Study and research (and lists!) are helpful.
Worrying is not.
Worry less. It’s solid advice for us all.